10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship

By Michael Webb
500 Lovemaking Tips

Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and romance that it once had? You’re not alone. Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also cause the loss of the spark that made your relationship
so special in the first place. Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to reignite that magic:

1. Send them a unique gift at work 

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner's workplace, such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention of: Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

2. Become kids again

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from their childhood.

3. Fun with water
On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.

4. A massage with a twist 

Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

5. Bring back childhood memories 

Contact your partner's family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted. You can do this for your man too.

6. Stare at the clouds 

Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie with your partner and look up at the clouds.

7. Go for a walk on the beach 

Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.

8. Organize a backyard picnic on a warm summer’s night 

Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.

9. Show you’re grateful for your partner  

Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming into my life."

10. Spice up your lovemaking

Probably the most profound way to rekindle the romance in your relationship is to spice up your lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love, try a new position, learn to give your partner a sensual massage before or after, or just spend some time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before making love. Many people underestimate the affect passionate and intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you
spice it up, chances are you and your partner will naturally do romantic things for each other. Why? Because passionate lovemaking connects two people in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing else can.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael
Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your
lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To
read more, visit: 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets

7 LoveMaking Mistakes

Did you know that people who try to spice up their lovemaking, often make their experiences LESS fulfilling? It’s true. Over the years, I've seen couples make the same mistakes over and over again, when trying to improve their love lives, and I'd like to teach you how to overcome and avoid these problems. Here are the 7 lovemaking mistakes. Are you making them?

Mistake #1: Feeling scared or embarrassed to talk about trying new things

Have you ever had an idea to spice up your lovemaking but were afraid of what your partner may think? Believe it or not, in 90% of cases, your partner would LOVE to try something new, too, but they're just as uncomfortable or embarrassed about bringing it up as you are. And you don't need to introduce whips, chains or a third person. That's nonsense! There are hundreds of ways to bring variety to your passionate play that aren't crude or dangerous and
that your partner is sure to be comfortable with.

Mistake #2: Trying to convince the partner to make love

If your lover is tired or not in the mood for sex, trying to convince or persuade them to have sex almost NEVER works. On the other hand, when a person is sexually aroused, their body releases the chemical 'adrenaline' into the bloodstream. This chemical is what gives you the energy to make love. So here's how to arouse them the right way. Yes, even if they're tired.

Ladies:  

Want to get him in the mood? Give him fellatio or manually stroke him between 9 – 10 in the morning. This is when his testosterone levels are highest for the day. For better results, also wear something sexy or nothing at all. He'll like that.

Lads:
Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest 'turn-ons' for women. Looking in her eyes and touching her face while kissing her can really increase arousal, too. And give some attention to her neck––it will drive her wild. But don't rush this! Spend quality time building up her arousal with your sensual kisses. (I need to comment here: Its so true!!)

Mistake #3: Neglecting foreplay to enjoy intercourse sooner

People in a relationship (especially men) tend to neglect foreplay so they can begin to enjoy intercourse sooner, but did you know that foreplay is actually said to intensify orgasms? That's right. If you kiss, caress and touch longer, you can make your lovemaking even more satisfying. So SLOW DOWN. Take your time. If you want to make it even better, tease your partner in a playful way. (This works like crazy.)If you find something that they really enjoy, stop doing it, move back, and then do it again later. The more you pull back and push forward, the more they'll want it. And the more intense their experience will be. There are  many games you can play to heighten this anticipation, too.

Mistake #4: Using toys or porn to make your lovemaking better

When sex hits a rough patch, many couples (men especially) think that a video, some plastic or vibrating thingy will instantly takes things through the roof.Wrong!… While toys can certainly have their place in your lovemaking repertoire, relying on them can be extremely dangerous. These outside sources of pleasure can quickly make lovemaking even less fulfilling.Why? Because you don't want your partner to end up looking forward to their plastic toy for pleasure more than they look forward to pleasure with you, do you? Couples need to first fully discover how to please all their spouses' body parts before introducing
other elements. Use them as a spice, not the main course.

Mistake #5: Trying to make the woman orgasm ONLY from intercourse

Men often feel "unmanly" if they can't satisfy their woman from intercourse. But what they need to understand is that a large number of women can't achieve orgasm through normal lovemaking.

Just knowing this takes the pressure off men completely. Now there's no need to get upset when their women don’t reach orgasm. Instead, men should master the art of cunnilingus (going down on a woman).

Mistake #6: Trying to “finish” at the same time

Simultaneous orgasms are quite overrated. Instead of aiming for one orgasm that you share together, focus completely on the woman’s needs first. Hold off from the positions you find most enjoyable and instead make love in ways that are most pleasurable for your lady, until she is completely satisfied. That way you have a much greater chance of both climaxing.

Mistake #7: Sticking to a “set routine” too often

You know the drill. You take your clothes off, insert part A into part B, and, within a few minutes, the routine is over. Sound familiar? No matter how fantastic lovemaking can be, there’s no denying it can get boring over the years. And the reason is because lovemaking in its basic act is always the same. But the danger is letting it get “too routine,” which can begin to affect your relationship.The BEST WAY to protect your love life and precious connection with your partner is to have lots of new lovemaking ideas ready at your disposal.That's the secret. In fact, when you have an abundance of NEW tips and techniques ready, you’ll enjoy more hot, steamy and passionate lovemaking, discover newfound enthusiasm to make love and even make love more often. 

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael
Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your
lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To
read more, visit: 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets

How to Lose Weight having Sex

Running, sweating, cycling, sweating is all about keeping the body in motion. Burning away the calories, slimming down those thighs. These are the activities I should be doing act least three times a week to keep in shape but sometime I just don't feel like it. So... as part of my FUN exercise routine and keeping myself the man happy. Sex as a means of weigh loss is highly recommended way to go.

Did you know that sex could also make you thinner?

In a 30 minute session of lovemaking you can burn anywhere between 80 to 200 calories (depending on how rigorous the session is among other factors).If you make love 3 times a week, you can burn 7,500 calorie annually which is the equivalent of what you would achieve if you jog for 75 miles! Imagine that! Even better- imagine what a sex goddess you would be. I cannot think of a more enjoyable way to shed the pounds.

• Improves cardiovascular fitness due to your heavy breathing and increased heart rate during lovemaking.
• Tones the muscles, including several muscle groups that rarely come into play during your regular routine. Reduces stress which is know to contribute to weight gain especially around the abdominals. Reducing stress can also help reduce the risk of heart diseases and other illnesses.
• Helps you sleep better. Studies show that people who sleep better than others tend to lose weight faster.
• An orgasm can burn between 60-100 calories

I will share with you Seven Great positions that will help you lose weight and keep you motivated with a new positions everyday. Just enjoy the ride.

7 Day Sex Position Weight Loss

Monday - Missionary Position

I suggest you start of slow since you have a great week ahead of you. Get to know your partner a little more and slowly get your body easy into a nice warm-up.

Tuesday - Back up Doggie

Time to take the lead and get that heart pumping and to get those legs burning. Maximum control - intense orgasm.

Wednesday - Up against it

Improve balance and works you inner core strength and makes you both happy. Great for anytime activity.

Thursday - Lap Limbo

Full body work out.

Friday - Classic Doggy Style

Sometime you have to cheat a little. Be present but let machines take over...like the vibration machine at the gym. Less stress but you have all the pleasure.

Saturday - Gravity

Yoga is always good for the soul.

Sunday - Let's Spoon

T.L.C time.

Studies show sex, aside from being highly pleasurable, fun & exciting, also decreases stress levels, improves blood circulation, improves your cardiovascular health, mental health & overall well being. It also improves the condition of your skin, hair and nails. If you ask me, sexual fun is a win-win situation every single time. Just remember to use protection!

SEX: The Art of love making

Yes, love making is an important topic to discuss on Girlondaloose. If I want to continue the pursuit of happiness and living my life to the fullest, then love making time is just as important. I don't want it to be technical or " follow these steps to get the most out of love making" ... NO. This is the Art of Love Making not the Activity of Sex. Understand the difference?
Just like any satisfying quickie or the passionate rush for sex these moments need to be enjoyed. Do what ever you like as long it is with a consenting adult. I am here to talk about Love...Love Making to be exact.


But above all, you need to learn how to Love Yourself and Master your imperfections.


Are you a good lover? We all like to think we’re good lovers, but in reality, most of us know there’s room for improvement. After all, how we enjoy sex depends how connected you are with the person you're having a sexual relationship (one night stands included). At the end its that twinkle in your eye, that long gentle smile that lets you know the next day that you’ve shared something special together. If you want to achieve enjoyment and fulfilment from a healthy sexual relationship speak with your partner.


The art of lovemaking is about intimacy and this comes from openness and trust. When you feel a heart-to-heart connection with your partner, your lovemaking can be pure ecstacy. So be honest and let your partner know exactly how you feel but please don't crush egos. Love making is not a test that needs to be corrected, its connection. Its a connection that allows you to fully live your sexual desires. 


Foreplay is making love. Sometimes we can be so focussed on reaching orgasm that we forget to simply enjoy the pleasure of lovemaking.We need to taste each other, touch each other, see each other, smell each other, hear each other. These are the five senses that will draw you closer to each other more, leading to an explosive climax.  


Like any other art, you need to practice the art of lovemaking. Be creative. Be spontaneous. Grab you man when he comes out the shower or wait for him naked in the lounge. Trust me he won't say no. These moments are essential to becoming your own guru of love making. Try new things, positions or costumes make your own rules then break them. Anything goes. Discover what turns him on and what rocks your world. Love making is to be enjoyed. It is not a task or a routine but another way to say "I love you...this much!"

Love making is the art of receiving and giving pleasure. Don't waste your time. If you're going to open your legs make sure its to reach an orgasm  - M.C.

Alway remember to protect yourself and wear a condom.