Monday, October 18, 2010

How to Focus and Never Give Up

So, you feel like giving up? Well, then do it. You are what you put your mind too. If you are going to focus all your energy on your losses and your failures than don't be surprised that you are what you say. 

We all have our worst moments when we think that the best think to do, is to give up.  Let it go. Let it be. I suggest you cry, scream, let it out and shake it out and then breathe deeply because once the bad energy has been released and stupid has left the building, You are ready to be a champion again. A champions is someone who gets up, even when he can't. Learn to bounce back quickly and stay focused by getting back on track.
"A limit on what you will do, puts a limit on what you can do." - Anonymous
Just like Newtons first law. An object in motion tends to stay in motion. If you stop, everything stops. If you feel like giving up that’s normal, but get up and get going again to regain your winning momentum.
"People with goals succeed because they know where they are going... it's as simple as that." - Earl Nightingale
4 Ways to Keep Focus 
1. Create the right head space
You're brain has never been your friend when it came to happiness. Every thought whether it is negative or positive is controlled by your brain. It is designed to survive and never to suffer. It will continue to play games with you and always choose the easiest way to prevent any disappointment and sadness because You have trained it that way. To overcome all obstacles, whatever they may be, you need to control your thoughts. Conquer Yourself , Inner Peace , Learn to Let Go
To create the right frame of mine you need to;

  • Create a purpose filled life
  • Create a dynamic vision for your future

2. Stay Focused with Life Purpose
Your life purpose is the course or road you take. It’s the journey. It’s the doing actions along your journey that are filled with desire. Choosing the journey is absolutely critical if you want to live a purpose-filled life. If you don’t choose the journey, then the journey chooses you. Unfortunately for you, who thinks you are just here on earth for the ride and the sight seeing. You have a purpose. You were not born to be a cute baby but to be part of this life. You have influence, You do have choice and You do have power. We all do. It’s just a matter of awareness. Purpose is part of the answer, but only half the equation.
The other half comes from your vision. Your purpose must be fueled with a destination.

"If your life purpose is the course you take, then your vision is the magnet that pulls you along that course. Your vision sets the destination" - Steve Martile 
I could not have said it better.
3.  Stay Focused with Vision
“Give us clear vision that we may know where to stand and what to stand for- because unless we stand for something we shall fall for anything”- Peter Marshall 
"I think there is something, more important than believing: Action! The world is full of dreamers, there aren't enough who will move ahead and begin to take concrete steps to actualize their vision.”-  W. Clement Stone
4. Never, Never Give Up 
 Again I say bleed, fall, scream or cry but never never give up. It is not the fall that matters, it is whether you get up. 
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all."~ Dale Carnegie


  1. Amazing post! I read "The secret" and I realised that we are who puts our limits, not life or other persons.

  2. You never fail to inspire! Love this post.. :D x


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